One For The Ladies
Wendy Alsup is deacon of women's theology and teaching at Mars Hill Church in Seattle, WA. She is a wife and mom and also occasionally teaches mathematics at a local community college.
She has written a series of four articles found on The Resurgence website satirically titled "The Ideal Christian Woman". Wendy skillfully refocuses the discussion of what the 'Ideal' should possibly look like.
Part 1. She is honest about her sin.
Part 2. Her identity and security are found in Christ
Part 3. In her body and life, she seeks to reflect the image of God.
Part 4. She ministers Grace to others, within and outside of the church.
Below is an excerpt:
I have had several women recently come to me concerned that they don't match the stereotype of the Ideal Christian Woman. That got me to think--what is that stereotype? When I hear others discuss the "Christian Woman" at our church, I think I know what they are talking about. I'm not going to describe her here, because I don't want to hurt any woman who may fit that stereotype. But I do want to shoot down the main myth I hear about the stereotypical Christian woman.
Myth
The godliest of Christian women look great all the time, all have godly Boaz type husbands, and have the same convictions about childbirth, breastfeeding, education, dinner preparation, employment, and so forth.
The Truth
First of all, "godliest" is a bad label. It implies we determine our godliness by comparing ourselves to others. "She's godlier than that other lady, so that makes her the godliest." Wrong! Christ is our standard of perfection, and we all fall short of His glory. The best analogy I've heard is that it is like someone standing on a sheet of paper and claiming to be closer to the sun. When we try to use the label "godliest," we are equally absurd. READ MORE
She has written a series of four articles found on The Resurgence website satirically titled "The Ideal Christian Woman". Wendy skillfully refocuses the discussion of what the 'Ideal' should possibly look like.
Part 1. She is honest about her sin.
Part 2. Her identity and security are found in Christ
Part 3. In her body and life, she seeks to reflect the image of God.
Part 4. She ministers Grace to others, within and outside of the church.
Below is an excerpt:
I have had several women recently come to me concerned that they don't match the stereotype of the Ideal Christian Woman. That got me to think--what is that stereotype? When I hear others discuss the "Christian Woman" at our church, I think I know what they are talking about. I'm not going to describe her here, because I don't want to hurt any woman who may fit that stereotype. But I do want to shoot down the main myth I hear about the stereotypical Christian woman.
Myth
The godliest of Christian women look great all the time, all have godly Boaz type husbands, and have the same convictions about childbirth, breastfeeding, education, dinner preparation, employment, and so forth.
The Truth
First of all, "godliest" is a bad label. It implies we determine our godliness by comparing ourselves to others. "She's godlier than that other lady, so that makes her the godliest." Wrong! Christ is our standard of perfection, and we all fall short of His glory. The best analogy I've heard is that it is like someone standing on a sheet of paper and claiming to be closer to the sun. When we try to use the label "godliest," we are equally absurd. READ MORE